Top Ten Things We Withhold
The following is an excerpt from Top Coaching Techniques.
1. I like you more than I let on; I’d like to spend more time with you
2. You’re sexy/I want to have sex with you
3. I feel hurt by something you did/do
4. I’m drained by you…….(being late, not returning my calls, yelling at me etc.)
5. I’d really like you to touch and hug me more
6. I love you. Thank you for being in my life.
7. I’m angry at you.
8. I’m having sex to please you/keep you in the relationship
9. I’m worried if I tell you the truth you’ll be angry/ I’m afraid.
10. I’ve been showing you the front I want you to see – all my life! Now you’ll see me!