From: David Wood [support@solutionbox.com]
Sent: Friday, 24 October 2003 5:45 PM
To: davidt@lifecoachingresource.com
Subject: [MentorMonthly #8] Four Steps to Confident Coaching
Mentor Monthly™ Newsletter
Start your practice...

Accelerate your practice.

This issue prepared for: David Wood

ISSUE #8: FOUR STEPS TO CONFIDENT COACHING


David Wood, PCC
LifeSkills Coaching
www.firstfiftyclients.com
www.coachstart.com

"Now 11,919 subscribers in 90 countries!"


CONTENTS

1. Announcements/Offers
2. FEATURE: 'Four Steps To Confident Coaching'
3. About the 'Mentor Monthly™' Newsletter



1. ANNOUNCEMENTS/ OFFERS

Business Building Teleclass for Coaches

Would you like access to my coach mentoring without paying my mentoring fee?

While the public will pay US$39, as a valued newsletter subscriber, you can still join the CoachStart™ teleclasses for fr'ee!

To get the teleclass schedule, and reserve your fr'ee spot, just send a blank email to: david38-40715@autocontactor.com

Affiliate Program Launched!

What does this mean? It means that instead of recommending our valuable solutions to your friends just because you're a nice person - you can now also earn 25% commission on every product they buy (for two years after your referral!)

Even if you don't have a website, or don't know any coaches, you can STILL participate.

To see the full list of products now available, and how much you can earn, visit here.

Making Money Online

For you more entrepreneurial coaches out there who would like to create and sell your own product online, or just get clients online, I've arranged for you to get EIGHTEEN internet marketing ebooks for the price of one!

What's the catch? While the information is very useful, the covers and formatting were hastily put together - that's why it's currently available for such a low price. You can download the eighteen ebooks here.

Try them out! It comes with the usual 100% guarantee.


2. FEATURE ARTICLE: 'Four Steps to Confident Coaching'

Have you ever felt unsure of yourself as a coach? Scared that you might not have an answer for someone? Worried you’ll give the wrong advice? Concerned they’ll think you’re a fraud?

The biggest difference I seem to make with the new coaches I mentor is in the area of confidence. Sure I help them with designing their unique coaching session, marketing and business set up. But their main block is often lack of confidence.

What if you have – RIGHT NOW – much more to offer a client than you think? What if you could make a big difference to someone’s life right now –before you get your qualification? What if you could go out and get ten new clients after reading the information in this article?!

In the CoachStart Manual™ I detail seven insights which will help you obtain confidence – right now. I’d like to give you the first four of these insights here in this article.

Here are some valuable things you can offer to a client – RIGHT NOW:

1. The way you listen
Most people listen in the “waiting for my turn to speak” mode. Or noticing if this is boring or entertaining.
But the coach listens with undivided attention. A coach listens from “Is this moving forward?” “Does this sound like what they really want?” “Are there any actionable steps to take?” Simply by both of you coming together to look for ways the client can progress, they are getting something they don’t usually get from conversation.

2. Being there each week
It’s amazing how much a person will get done just knowing there is someone to hold them accountable. They know next week you are going to ask them, “Did you do it?” Just by being there you are helping them discover what is important in their life. (It’s like having a running partner. Without the partner there you may not run as far or even get out of bed. With a partner your attention is on running, and you run further, faster and with more fun!)

3. A Sounding Board
Being able to talk about their issues lends clarity. Just discussing what has been clanging around their heads all week is valuable. Have you ever been trying to solve a problem and getting nowhere until you had a chance to talk about it with someone? You are giving your clients a chance to do that every week.

4. A Second Head
You may be able to see what they are doing in a new light. You may have a different perspective allowing you to see their blind spots. Some things may be obvious to you, but don’t even occur to them. You might have different ideas they wouldn’t have had.

* * *

And these are just a few things you bring to the table – before you even have any coach specific training. You can make a difference to people around you, you can put on the hat of a coach if it calls to you, right now.

If you would like the full list of what a new coach brings to the table, or if you would like to see the other chapters included in The CoachStart™ Manual, you can find them here.

Enjoy!


David
www.firstfiftyclients.com
www.coachstart.com


3 . ABOUT THE 'MENTOR MONTHLY™' NEWSLETTER

TO SUBSCRIBE, and for fr'ee information packs on coaching, visit: www.news.lifecoachingresource.com (or send a blank email to: david38-24813@autocontactor.com if you don't need the information packs)

Please forward this newsletter to anyone you feel might make a great coach!

TO CANCEL, click the link at the bottom of this email. You can then choose to exit either from just this newsletter, or my entire database.

I encourage you to share, replicate or forward this newsletter as long as the subscription, author links, attribution, and copyright information are kept intact.


LifeSkills Coaching
support@solutionbox.com
www.firstfiftyclients.com
www.coachstart.com


David Wood is a personal and business coach, and founder of a global coach training company. He is a Professional Certified Coach with the International Coach Federation (ICF) based in Washington, D.C.

David has coached people in 13 countries via telephone and email. He calls his clients once a week and does whatever it takes on the phone to help them move forward. He works with professionals on career direction and personal issues, with small business owners, and managers/executives. He also helps coaches start or accelerate their coaching practice via the CoachStart™ Mentor Program, found at www.CoachStart.com/Mentor.htm


Copyright 1999-2003 LifeSkills Coaching and SolutionBox™
All rights reserved.







If you no longer wish to receive communication from us:
Cancel

To update your contact information:
Change