{"id":634,"date":"2009-08-25T09:50:56","date_gmt":"2009-08-25T15:50:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/?p=634"},"modified":"2009-08-25T09:52:27","modified_gmt":"2009-08-25T15:52:27","slug":"mm-111-what-impact-do-you-want-to-make","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/mm-111-what-impact-do-you-want-to-make\/","title":{"rendered":"MM #111: What Impact Do You Want To Make"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3><strong>1. Announcements\/Offers<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><strong>Could the World Use More Snuggling?<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright\" title=\"Snuggle On T shirt\" src=\"http:\/\/www.solutionbox.com\/Graphics\/snuggle_on_tshirt.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"216\" height=\"220\" \/><\/strong><a href=\"http:\/\/tinyurl.com\/snuggleon\" target=\"_blank\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I created this for myself. I love it, and so do others. I figure there should be more snuggling in the world, don&#8217;t you?<\/p>\n<p>So I&#8217;m inviting you to get one, and post a pic of yourself wearing<br \/>\nit on the <a href=\"http:\/\/life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/2009\/08\/get-your-snuggle-on\/#respond\" target=\"_blank\">blog<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Get it <a href=\"http:\/\/tinyurl.com\/snuggleon\" target=\"_blank\">here<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>(P.S. it&#8217;s not a money maker for me &#8211; i think they pay a whole $2 per<br \/>\nshirt. Just wanted to share this shirt with you)<\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><strong>Join me at the Engage Conference with Richard Branson and the Dali Lama<\/strong><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\">More than 20 of the world&#8217;s most important leaders, entrepreneurs, public figures and experts are gathering to give you the tools to create massive change in your business, your life and your community<\/p>\n<p>TICKET ACCESS: The Engage Conference w\/ the Dalai Lama,<br \/>\nRichard Branson and more:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.solutionbox.com\/engage.php\" target=\"_blank\">http:\/\/www.SolutionBox.com\/engage.php<\/a> &lt;== click here now<\/p>\n<p align=\"left\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<div>\n<h3><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a name=\"feature\"><\/a><\/span><strong>2. FEATURE: What Impact Do You Want to Make?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p align=\"left\">Guest Article by Beth Dargis, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mysimplerlife.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">www.MySimplerLife.com<\/a> and my right hand person.<\/p>\n<p>***<br \/>\nI learned much at the Spiritual Marketing Telesummit, hosted by Suzanne Falter-Barns NY Times Best Selling Author of the book &#8220;How Much Joy Can You Stand.&#8221; In one of her calls she helped us think bigger.<\/p>\n<h3>Finding &#8216;Your People&#8217; to serve<\/h3>\n<p>Suzanne says that the most important idea in thinking bigger is to find the right people for the gift you are giving to others. Your People will move you to a higher level in your work, by participating in your work.<\/p>\n<p>You want to find people that are an appropriate group for your work. You don&#8217;t want to be serving people so far behind you in growth that you get stunted. And you don&#8217;t want to try to serve people who are already far ahead of you or you will feel inauthentic.<\/p>\n<h3>Finding the people that help you grow<\/h3>\n<p>Suzanne says it&#8217;s not just finding your people to serve, it&#8217;s finding the support people that will help you think bigger. I know David has enlarged his vision since hanging around people like Jack Canfield and others on the Transformational Leadership Council.<\/p>\n<h3>How big do you want to play?<\/h3>\n<p>Thinking bigger can be scary. You may be scared to speak to others. Or maybe thinking bigger to you means looking for a local TV spot which makes you nervous. Or connecting with people who you think are better than you &#8211; how would you even start?<\/p>\n<p>But if you phrase it, &#8220;How big of an impact do I want to have?&#8221; that takes the focus off how you feel and onto how you can make others feel.<\/p>\n<h3>Don&#8217;t worry about failing<\/h3>\n<p>If you have been playing small, Suzanne says that&#8217;s fine. Failure is, &#8220;a lack of action at a particular time where growth is shown&#8221; or it could be, &#8220;a choice that leads to another course of action.&#8221; Successful people take more actions and have more failures than people that play it safe and feel less successful.<\/p>\n<p>You may have stayed small in your past, but you can make a different choice next time.<\/p>\n<h3>Get support<\/h3>\n<p>This becoming bigger is hard work. Support is vital. Think about what you need to become bigger.<\/p>\n<p>Gather a community around you that can support you, give you information, help you meet people and you can do the same for them. It&#8217;s harder to back out of a phone call with a potential agent if you have a group expecting you to tell them the results of the call.<\/p>\n<p>And give yourself support. Ask someone to watch the kids or go for a walk or have a daily, centering time.<\/p>\n<h3>Remember your motivation<\/h3>\n<p>And a final point Suzanne had was that becoming bigger is not about looking better &#8211; having a bigger house, a better car, or knowing cool people. It&#8217;s going deeper into the natural flow of the universe. Growing as you naturally are growing and taking your business with you.<\/p>\n<p>Focus on &#8220;love, understanding and growth &#8211; not fear.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<h3>Action:<\/h3>\n<p>1) List ways you have stayed small at the <a href=\"http:\/\/life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/2009\/08\/mm-111-what-impact-do-you-want-to-make\/#respond\" target=\"_blank\">blog<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>2) Think about the impact you want to have.<\/p>\n<p>3) What support do you need to become bigger? You can ask for it at the <a href=\"http:\/\/life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/2009\/08\/mm-111-what-impact-do-you-want-to-make\/#respond\" target=\"_blank\">blog<\/a> and maybe you can connect with someone who can help.<a href=\"http:\/\/life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/2009\/07\/mm-110-gain-more-clients-with-a-coaching-faq\/#respond\" target=\"_blank\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>***<br \/>\nYou can still get the recordings from the Spritual Marketing Telesummit <a href=\"http:\/\/www.getknownnow.com\/cmd.php?Clk=3031726\" target=\"_blank\">here<\/a>.<\/div>\n<p align=\"left\">Enjoy!<\/p>\n<p align=\"left\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.solutionbox.com\/Graphics\/sighalf.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"100\" height=\"56\" \/><\/p>\n<p>P.S. Got a comment on this article? Please add it to the <a href=\"http:\/\/life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/2009\/08\/mm-111-what-impact-do-you-want-to-make\/#respond\" target=\"_blank\">BLOG<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. Announcements\/Offers Could the World Use More Snuggling? I created this for myself. I love it, and so do others. I figure there should be more snuggling in the world, don&#8217;t you? So I&#8217;m inviting you to get one, and post a pic of yourself wearing it on the blog Get it here. 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