{"id":238,"date":"2008-12-09T22:11:29","date_gmt":"2008-12-10T04:11:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/?p=238"},"modified":"2008-12-09T22:22:19","modified_gmt":"2008-12-10T04:22:19","slug":"create-56-finding-love-and-joy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/create-56-finding-love-and-joy\/","title":{"rendered":"Create #56: Finding Love and Joy"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a name=\"announce\" target=\"_blank\"><\/a><\/span><strong>1. Announcements\/Offers<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p align=\"left\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>How was this marriage saved?<\/strong><\/span><span style=\"color: #4d7ab3;\"><strong><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">I was very moved to receive this success story from the latest reader of &#8220;The Truth About Women&#8221; ebook:\u00a0<span style=\"font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><em>&#8220;David, I have to say thank you sooooo MUCH!!! My husband and I seemed to be worlds apart until I found your ebook. We were in such bad shape I thought there was no where left to go.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">We starting reading &#8216;The Truth About Women&#8217; together about a week ago and it was as if the light came on. He actually looked at me and said &#8220;I GET IT! I understand now what you&#8217;ve been trying to tell me all along&#8221;<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">We have our good days and our bad days, but the bad ones are becoming far less and when we need to we just reference your ebook to seek coaching!\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">I know this all sounds so stereotypical but it is the truth. Thank you so much. You have truly saved a family from it&#8217;s own demise!&#8221;\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">Tracey Iverson<br \/>\nWest Chester PA USA<br \/>\ngtkiverson @ aol.com\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\">Click here for &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.profcs.com\/app\/adtrack.asp?AdID=55322\" target=\"_blank\">The Truth About Women<\/a>&#8221; <\/span><\/p>\n<p align=\"left\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h3><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a name=\"feature\" target=\"_blank\"><\/a><\/span><strong><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">2. <\/span>FEATURE: Finding Love and Joy<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">This is an excerpt from <em>Warrior of the Light<\/em> by Paulo Coelho:<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt;\">A Warrior of the Light needs love. <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt;\">Love and affection are as much a part of his nature as eating, drinking, and a taste for the Good Fight.<span style=\"mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-spacerun: yes;\">\u00a0 <\/span>When the Warrior watches a sunset and feels no joy, then something is wrong. <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt;\">At this point, he stops fighting and goes in search of company, so that they can watch the setting sun together. <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt;\">If he has difficulty in finding company, he asks himself: \u201cWas I too afraid to approach someone?<span style=\"mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-spacerun: yes;\">\u00a0 <\/span>Did I receive affection and not even notice?\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt;\">A Warrior of the Light makes use of solitude, but is not used by it. <\/span><\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<h3>Action<\/h3>\n<p>1) Do one thing today that brings you joy.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>2) Do the same activity, only take someone with you. Experience the joy of sharing that moment together.<\/p>\n<p>3) What have you learned? Go to the <a href=\"http:\/\/life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/2008\/12\/create-56-finding-love-and-joy\/#respond\" target=\"_blank\">blog<\/a> and share your experience.<\/p>\n<p>* * * *<\/p>\n<h3>\u00a0<\/h3>\n<p>Enjoy!<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.solutionbox.com\/Graphics\/sighalf.gif\" alt=\"\" width=\"100\" height=\"56\" \/><\/p>\n<p>P.S. Got a comment on this article? Add it to the <a href=\"http:\/\/life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/2008\/12\/create-56-finding-love-and-joy\/#respond\" target=\"_blank\">blog<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h3><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a name=\"personal\" target=\"_blank\"><\/a><\/span><strong>3. The Personal Touch<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Quite an interesting month. I thought I could keep writing my book while I traveled Australia, but I can&#8217;t. Too distracting. I now have an offer from two publishers, and am still shopping it around.<\/p>\n<p>It was awesome to make my brother&#8217;s 30th birthday in Melbourne, and to stay with Bronwyn (my darling ex) and her man.<\/p>\n<p>It was great to survive the government audit for a $100,000 export assistance grant. (results aren&#8217;t in yet, but it&#8217;s looking good)<\/p>\n<p>I went camping with my Dad for three nights &#8211; the first time we&#8217;ve ever done something alone. It was profound, with each of us bringing up things we&#8217;d never spoken of.<\/p>\n<p>After 35 years, I enrolled my family in celebrating my late sister&#8217;s life. She lived for 5 years, and I say that&#8217;s 5 years worth celebrating! We had a lovely time story-telling around the table.<\/p>\n<p>I explored relationship possibility (once again!) with my personal growth angel\/devil, and found that I was just getting hugely triggered; I wasn&#8217;t happy. I finally decided life is too short for that, and felt instantly better once I decided to move on (yet again ;-). But you know &#8211; it does get easier. It was one of the best break up calls I&#8217;ve had.<\/p>\n<p>I spoke to 500 people at a Chris Howard business seminar in Sydney. Sales weren&#8217;t what I expected, but I nailed the speech, and I did discover that making out with a stunning woman is a lovely way of moving through a breakup. (too much info? well&#8230;you ARE reading the personal section \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n<p>Also connected with my Aussie friend Sarah Mac after 7 years, and we&#8217;re talking about doing a radio show in the US &#8211; entertainment meets personal development. Thoughts? (let&#8217;s hear them on the <a href=\"http:\/\/life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/2008\/12\/create-56-finding-love-and-joy\/#respond\" target=\"_blank\">blog<\/a>)<\/p>\n<p>Today I flew from Sydney to San Francisco, and am writing from a lovely hotel on the water. Tomorrow I go to Calgary to hang with friends, and expect to go house hunting soon in the San Francisco Bay area.<\/p>\n<p>So once again, your average month \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n<p>You can find new photos and videos at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.davidsfacebook.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">www.davidsfacebook.com<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Love David<\/p>\n<p>P.S. all comments welcome <a href=\"http:\/\/life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/2008\/12\/create-56-finding-love-and-joy\/#respond\" target=\"_blank\">here<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. Announcements\/Offers How was this marriage saved? I was very moved to receive this success story from the latest reader of &#8220;The Truth About Women&#8221; ebook:\u00a0&#8220;David, I have to say thank you sooooo MUCH!!! My husband and I seemed to be worlds apart until I found your ebook. 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