{"id":1966,"date":"2013-01-25T12:00:07","date_gmt":"2013-01-25T18:00:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/?p=1966"},"modified":"2012-02-08T17:08:41","modified_gmt":"2012-02-08T23:08:41","slug":"relationship-roller-coaster","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/relationship-roller-coaster\/","title":{"rendered":"Relationship Roller Coaster"},"content":{"rendered":"

The following is an excerpt of one of David\u2019s coaching sessions in Top Coaching Techniques<\/a>.<\/p>\n

David:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Yeah, but what I can see is the possibility that like as you\u2019re going through your roller coaster, she\u2019s got her own version that she\u2019s trying to move through and deal with it all, so I can totally get that if you called her \u2013 see, look at how confused you\u2019ve been, right, and you\u2019ve got me to help you through it. She\u2019s on her own. Who\u2019s going to help her through it? Her man? She\u2019s probably not talking to him about it. So she\u2019s dealing with that, and each time, if you do go back to her to try and get your need met, you can be turning her life upside down a little bit. So just something to bear in mind.<\/p>\n

Client:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Yeah, exactly. I was just thinking whether that\u2019s actually selfish of me to actually do that.<\/p>\n

David:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Yeah. So the coaching is to stay present, stay aware in each moment, to check in with her as to what she wants and what would support her. If what would support her is not hearing your voice, then yeah, she\u2019s made it pretty clear and you can decide if you want to do that, or if it\u2019s more important to you to get your need met, which I suspect it isn\u2019t, from what I\u2019ve heard from you today.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The following is an excerpt of one of David\u2019s coaching sessions in Top Coaching Techniques. David:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Yeah, but what I can see is the possibility that like as you\u2019re going through your roller coaster, she\u2019s got her own version that she\u2019s trying to move through and deal with it all, so I can totally get […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[159],"tags":[188,265,26],"class_list":["post-1966","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-top-coaching-techniques","tag-coaching-example","tag-coaching-techniques","tag-relationships"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t