{"id":1939,"date":"2013-01-12T12:00:47","date_gmt":"2013-01-12T18:00:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/?p=1939"},"modified":"2012-02-08T16:17:46","modified_gmt":"2012-02-08T22:17:46","slug":"following-your-own-path","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/following-your-own-path\/","title":{"rendered":"Following Your Own Path"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The following is an excerpt of one of David\u2019s coaching sessions in <a href=\"http:\/\/www.topcoachingtechniques.com\/\">Top Coaching Techniques<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>David:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 You know, I understand it. I know you\u2019re like, \u2018I hope he says yes, and if he says yes, I hope he sticks to it because he might change his mind later. If he says no, then am I going to do it on my own,\u2019 or whatever. There\u2019s no commitment from you.<\/p>\n<p>Client:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Right, so you\u2019re suggesting that I need to just figure out what I want to do, commit to it, and see what part of it he wants to join me on and what part he doesn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>David:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Well, you could do that but let\u2019s look at an upgrade to that. What if you decided what you wanted to do, made a commitment to it, and then enrolled or enthused him in playing that game with you?<\/p>\n<p>Client:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Right.<\/p>\n<p>David:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 It\u2019s a very different place to come from, when you\u2019re actually committed to it, than saying, \u2018I\u2019d really like it. Let\u2019s kind of do it.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>Client:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Right. I\u2019m so glad you said that, because that\u2019s sort of what I came to today. I was like, \u2018You know, I just need to figure out what are the things that are really important for me to accomplish over, let\u2019s say, the next year? How am I going to prioritize those things? How am I going to make them happen? What parts do I need him or don\u2019t I need him to do with me?\u2019<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The following is an excerpt of one of David\u2019s coaching sessions in Top Coaching Techniques. David:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 You know, I understand it. I know you\u2019re like, \u2018I hope he says yes, and if he says yes, I hope he sticks to it because he might change his mind later. If he says no, then am I [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[159],"tags":[188,26],"aioseo_notices":[],"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1939"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1939"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1939\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1940,"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1939\/revisions\/1940"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1939"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1939"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1939"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}