{"id":1937,"date":"2013-01-11T12:00:07","date_gmt":"2013-01-11T18:00:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/?p=1937"},"modified":"2012-02-08T16:14:22","modified_gmt":"2012-02-08T22:14:22","slug":"broadening-your-relationship-horizons","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/broadening-your-relationship-horizons\/","title":{"rendered":"Broadening Your Relationship Horizons"},"content":{"rendered":"

The following is an excerpt of David\u2019s interview in Top Coaching Techniques<\/a>.<\/p>\n

David:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 That\u2019s exactly why this is an incredible exercise, because you list it all and then you go, \u2018Well okay, there are about two people on the planet that could meet that, and they\u2019re married.\u2019<\/p>\n

Ingrid:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Yeah, that\u2019s right.<\/p>\n

David:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 So yeah, you list all that stuff and then you circle the ones that are really absolute deal-breakers. See how broad you can get. Try not to circle everything and see if you can say, \u2018Well, maybe he doesn\u2019t have to be tall.\u2019 You know, or, \u2018Maybe she doesn\u2019t have to have an incredible body. Maybe if she was really loving and fun and challenged me, then that could be a wonderful relationship.\u2019 You could even call this \u2013 well, it sounds like a narrowing exercise \u2013 you could even call it a broadening exercise, because people walk around with this little radar, looking for their perfect partner. The scope of that radar is so narrow, what you want to do is broaden that to give yourself much more opportunity.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The following is an excerpt of David\u2019s interview in Top Coaching Techniques. David:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 That\u2019s exactly why this is an incredible exercise, because you list it all and then you go, \u2018Well okay, there are about two people on the planet that could meet that, and they\u2019re married.\u2019 Ingrid:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Yeah, that\u2019s right. David:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 So yeah, you […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[159],"tags":[188,265,26],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t