{"id":1933,"date":"2013-01-09T12:00:00","date_gmt":"2013-01-09T18:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/?p=1933"},"modified":"2012-02-08T16:09:51","modified_gmt":"2012-02-08T22:09:51","slug":"breaking-up-and-moving-on","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/breaking-up-and-moving-on\/","title":{"rendered":"Breaking Up and Moving On"},"content":{"rendered":"

The following is an excerpt of one of David\u2019s coaching sessions in Top Coaching Techniques<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Client:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 I feel a bit more if I probably don\u2019t get in contact with her, that won\u2019t be probably so bad.<\/p>\n

David:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Well I\u2019d like to share a couple of thoughts on it. First, I think it\u2019s great, so it sounds like you\u2019re in a good place. What I can see happening is that she was meeting a need for you, she still is. You know, that email felt good, right?<\/p>\n

Client:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Yeah.<\/p>\n

David:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 So she still is meeting that need for you, and that\u2019s okay, as long as you recognize that when you\u2019re pining, what you\u2019re feeling is, \u2018I\u2019m not feeling loved. I want that reassurance from her.\u2019 That\u2019s okay as long as you know what\u2019s going on. It sounds like you realize you weren\u2019t getting everything you need from the relationship, so you made a conscious choice to leave, and then you\u2019re like, \u2018Hang on, but I was getting that need.\u2019 What a lot of people do, and what I did for years, is I went back. I went back and got the need met again to the point where I got that filled up, and then thought, \u2018What am I doing?\u2019<\/p>\n

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Client: \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 Yeah, exactly.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The following is an excerpt of one of David\u2019s coaching sessions in Top Coaching Techniques. Client:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 I feel a bit more if I probably don\u2019t get in contact with her, that won\u2019t be probably so bad. David:\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Well I\u2019d like to share a couple of thoughts on it. First, I think it\u2019s great, so it […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[159],"tags":[188,265,26],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t