{"id":1733,"date":"2012-10-25T12:00:14","date_gmt":"2012-10-25T18:00:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/?p=1733"},"modified":"2012-02-07T12:19:58","modified_gmt":"2012-02-07T18:19:58","slug":"if-mama-aint-happy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/if-mama-aint-happy\/","title":{"rendered":"If Mama Ain&#8217;t Happy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The following is an excerpt of one of David\u2019s coaching sessions in <a href=\"http:\/\/www.topcoachingtechniques.com\/\">Top Coaching Techniques<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>David: If mama ain\u2019t happy, ain\u2019t no one happy!<\/p>\n<p>Client: Very true!<\/p>\n<p>David: So it\u2019s just smart, and it\u2019ll save you time. Rather than focusing your attention on yourself, focus more of it on her. The other advantage of that is she\u2019s more intuitive. So she\u2019ll know when you need a break; she\u2019ll know when this is right for you; she\u2019ll know when this color\u2019s right for you. She just\u2026 Imagine life without women!<\/p>\n<p>Client: It\u2019s true.<\/p>\n<p>David: So she\u2019ll actually help to guide you to places that you wouldn\u2019t go on your own.<\/p>\n<p>Client: True.<\/p>\n<p>David: So you can actually rely on that, but the question you raised is, \u2018What\u2019s the limit? What about when I need something?\u2019 What I would suggest &#8211; and this is coming straight from a guy in the States who\u2019s developed all this stuff &#8211; is 10%. 10% of the time there should be limits. Like \u2018No, that\u2019s not okay\u2019 or \u2018No, I\u2019m not going to go there. I\u2019m on vacation\u2019 or \u2018No, I don\u2019t agree to spending that.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>Client: Got it.<\/p>\n<p>David: That helps in two ways. One way is you get to look after yourself. Like, sometimes you just need some space.<\/p>\n<p>Client: Yeah.<\/p>\n<p>David: Or you need this or you need that &#8211; so sometimes you can put the veto in and go, \u2018You know what? I need to look after myself on that one.\u2019 The other reason that\u2019s really good is, women need to know that there are limits. In fact, everybody does. If you have absolutely no limits, respect can disappear. Then you\u2019re all wishy-washy, and no one wants a doormat.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The following is an excerpt of one of David\u2019s coaching sessions in Top Coaching Techniques. David: If mama ain\u2019t happy, ain\u2019t no one happy! Client: Very true! David: So it\u2019s just smart, and it\u2019ll save you time. Rather than focusing your attention on yourself, focus more of it on her. The other advantage of that [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[159],"tags":[26,319,278],"aioseo_notices":[],"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1733"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1733"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1733\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1734,"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1733\/revisions\/1734"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1733"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1733"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1733"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}