{"id":1717,"date":"2012-10-17T12:00:08","date_gmt":"2012-10-17T18:00:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/?p=1717"},"modified":"2012-02-07T11:56:33","modified_gmt":"2012-02-07T17:56:33","slug":"unconfident-about-confidence","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/unconfident-about-confidence\/","title":{"rendered":"Unconfident about Confidence"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The following is an excerpt of one of David\u2019s coaching sessions in <a href=\"http:\/\/www.topcoachingtechniques.com\/\">Top Coaching Techniques<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>David: Say you\u2019ve been saying in your mind, \u2018Oh, lacking confidence is terrible and bad, and that\u2019s why, you know\u2026\u2019 While you have that, I think you\u2019ll constantly be trying to fix it, and the irony is, that\u2019s what\u2019s going to stop you from having it.<\/p>\n<p>Client: Mm hmm!<\/p>\n<p>David: You\u2019re unconfident about your confidence.<\/p>\n<p>Client: [laughing] Yes.<\/p>\n<p>David: At some point, here\u2019s what\u2019s going to happen to you. You\u2019re going to wake up one day and realize \u2018Oh, this is me. All of it is just me, and that\u2019s fine. When I feel confident, then I feel confident; and when I feel unconfident, I feel unconfident. I can be a real timid little dear sometimes, and that\u2019s a part of me that I want to start to get to know.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The following is an excerpt of one of David\u2019s coaching sessions in Top Coaching Techniques. 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