{"id":1645,"date":"2012-09-12T12:00:49","date_gmt":"2012-09-12T18:00:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/?p=1645"},"modified":"2012-02-06T15:54:37","modified_gmt":"2012-02-06T21:54:37","slug":"time-to-get-what-you-want","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/time-to-get-what-you-want\/","title":{"rendered":"Time to Get What You Want"},"content":{"rendered":"

The following is an excerpt of one of David\u2019s coaching sessions in Top Coaching Techniques<\/a>.<\/p>\n

David: So this relationship thing, I am really glad to be talking about this with you. Let me give you some feedback on what you wrote: you have \u2018100% commitment to resist in order to do what I want\u2019 and \u2018I am constantly pulled by \u2018do I want to do my own thing and be happy or should I do this thing fully for both of us so that we both can be happy in two years?\u2019 Which one will ultimately give the relationship a chance at success: your being happy or you making the relationship happy?<\/p>\n

Client: Probably, if I\u2019m happy. I think.<\/p>\n

David: You\u2019re not sure, are you?<\/p>\n

Client: Well, when my partner says things like, \u2018well, you know we should do this together and we\u2019re doing it for our future\u2019\u2026 I kind of get distracted by those things, and I think for him, that\u2019s really important that we do these things together. He requires like 100% of my time and my energy and my effort. Then I think, in order for it to work, then I shouldn\u2019t be doing that. Does that make sense?<\/p>\n

David: Yeah, I can totally get it. So, there\u2019s a lot of \u2018should\u2019 in there. Now, how would you live your life differently today, if all of your \u2018shoulds\u2019 disappeared in an instant?<\/p>\n

Client: Then I\u2019d live my life as I\u2019d want to live it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The following is an excerpt of one of David\u2019s coaching sessions in Top Coaching Techniques. David: So this relationship thing, I am really glad to be talking about this with you. Let me give you some feedback on what you wrote: you have \u2018100% commitment to resist in order to do what I want\u2019 and […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[159],"tags":[188,349,26],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t