{"id":1298,"date":"2012-04-02T12:00:47","date_gmt":"2012-04-02T18:00:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/?p=1298"},"modified":"2012-02-01T19:41:52","modified_gmt":"2012-02-02T01:41:52","slug":"top-ten-ways-to-improve-your-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/top-ten-ways-to-improve-your-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"Top Ten Ways to Improve Your Relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"

The following is an excerpt from Top Coaching Techniques<\/a>.<\/p>\n

1.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ask your partner for three things you do that bugs or upsets him\/her. (And then cut it out!)<\/p>\n

2.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Find three things your partner does that you appreciate, but don’t thank them enough for – and thank them!<\/p>\n

3.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Acknowledge your partner for ~who~ they are (as opposed to what they do) e.g. generous, loving, vulnerable, caring, funny.<\/p>\n

4.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Make a list of TEN things you value about your partner and the relationship, and let them know!<\/p>\n

5.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Advanced: Give him\/her the space to tell you the things she’s scared to tell you. (Ask for something she’s uncomfortable telling you, and then BE OK with it – no matter what! You don’t get a second chance at this game)<\/p>\n

6.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ask him\/her if you’ve ever disappointed him. Then let him know it’s not your intention. (Note: if your emotions come up in response – let them go or leave the room!)<\/p>\n

7.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Advanced: What’s the Number One thing you’ve been withholding from your partner? Give them the change to accept you for who you are and what you’ve done.<\/p>\n

8.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Mark in your diary a weekly surprise for him\/her. It can be a trip to Fiji, or a massage – it’s the regular thinking that counts.<\/p>\n

9.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ask him\/her the Number One thing you can do to make her happy.<\/p>\n

10.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Schedule a “pleasure session” for your partner where his\/her job is only to enjoy, and reciprocation is not allowed!!!!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The following is an excerpt from Top Coaching Techniques. 1.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ask your partner for three things you do that bugs or upsets him\/her. (And then cut it out!) 2.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Find three things your partner does that you appreciate, but don’t thank them enough for – and thank them! 3.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Acknowledge your partner for ~who~ they […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[159],"tags":[26,160,126],"aioseo_notices":[],"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1298"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1298"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1298\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1299,"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1298\/revisions\/1299"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1298"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1298"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1298"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}