{"id":1197,"date":"2012-02-27T12:00:30","date_gmt":"2012-02-27T18:00:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/?p=1197"},"modified":"2012-01-31T23:16:28","modified_gmt":"2012-02-01T05:16:28","slug":"future-vs-past","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/future-vs-past\/","title":{"rendered":"Future vs Past"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The following is an excerpt from the\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.coachstart.com\/\">CoachStart Manual<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>People love their stories!\u00a0 They love their past, reasons, and complexities, perhaps because they validate who they think they are.<\/p>\n<p>As a coach, I\u2019m not interested in 90% of the past.\u00a0 I don\u2019t want to know why you spent 5 years in an unhappy marriage or the list of complaints you have about your boss.\u00a0 I\u2019m more interested in <em>what you want<\/em>, and \u2013 <em>what you\u2019re going to do about it<\/em>.\u00a0 It\u2019s a conversation about the future, rather than the past.\u00a0 Many people can describe exactly what they do not like about their lives.\u00a0 However, when asked how they would like the situation to look, more energy is required.\u00a0 Our job is to have them look in that direction.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The following is an excerpt from the\u00a0CoachStart Manual. People love their stories!\u00a0 They love their past, reasons, and complexities, perhaps because they validate who they think they are. As a coach, I\u2019m not interested in 90% of the past.\u00a0 I don\u2019t want to know why you spent 5 years in an unhappy marriage or the [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[8],"tags":[353,349,158,126],"aioseo_notices":[],"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1197"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1197"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1197\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1199,"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1197\/revisions\/1199"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1197"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1197"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1197"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}