{"id":1058,"date":"2011-10-27T20:05:04","date_gmt":"2011-10-28T02:05:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.getpaidforwhoyouare.com\/blog\/?p=405"},"modified":"2011-10-27T20:05:04","modified_gmt":"2011-10-28T02:05:04","slug":"itsnotyou01","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/itsnotyou01\/","title":{"rendered":"Its Not You, Its Them &#8211; &#8216;hate mail&#8217; update"},"content":{"rendered":"[wp_connect_like_button href=&#8221;http:\/\/www.ItsNotYouItsThem.com&#8221; send_button=&#8221;enabled&#8221; layout=&#8221;standard&#8221; width=&#8221;600&#8243; show_faces=&#8221;enabled&#8221; verb=&#8221;like&#8221; colorscheme=&#8221;light&#8221; font=&#8221;arial&#8221; ref=&#8221;&#8221; \/]\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/9eNDSGYtji8?rel=0\" frameborder=\"0\" width=\"480\" height=\"360\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n[wp_connect_like_button href=&#8221;http:\/\/www.ItsNotYouItsThem.com&#8221; send_button=&#8221;enabled&#8221; layout=&#8221;standard&#8221; width=&#8221;600&#8243; show_faces=&#8221;enabled&#8221; verb=&#8221;like&#8221; colorscheme=&#8221;light&#8221; font=&#8221;arial&#8221; ref=&#8221;&#8221; \/]\n<h2>Update#1 &#8216;Hate Mail&#8217;<\/h2>\n<p><em>\u201cYou consider that important? you are as full of it as he is.<br \/>\ngive me a break. so long.\u201d \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u2013 Dan<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cYou guys typically have some unbelievable\/moving<br \/>\nmessages. But that\u2019s the dumbest sh*t I\u2019ve heard in a<br \/>\nlong time. How is Bryan being authentic by digesting<br \/>\nand agreeing with that crock of sh*t?<br \/>\nYou can tell he\u2019s full of it just by his reactions in that video.<br \/>\nThink you might wanna run that one by Decker before<br \/>\nsending it out to any more members.\u201d<br \/>\n&#8211; Sean<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cSorry guys, but this time you\u2019ve picked up a load of B.S.\u201d<br \/>\n&#8211; Andrew<br \/>\n<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&#8230;And to those people, we blame you for making us feel bad.<\/p>\n<p>Seriously, while most people got it, it seems that some people didn\u2019t realize it was\u00a0a joke.<\/p>\n<p>Or at the very least, they felt \u201cduped\u201d because we were\u00a0playing a trickster role in telling you\u00a0it was a \u201cvery important message\u201d in the email.<\/p>\n<p><strong>THE REAL VALUE OF THIS VIDEO<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bryan and I actually think the video has a very\u00a0important message \u2014 a playful way of pointing out how\u00a0we so often don\u2019t take responsibility in our lives. As I mention\u00a0in the comments below:\u00a0<em>\u201cyou think at some point or other we\u00a0<\/em><em>don\u2019t do or think every single one of these things?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m blaming people and things all the time for my life.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;My parents could have done a better job&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The Government screwed up free expression&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;My cat is to blame for my lack of sleep last night&#8221;<br \/>\nIt&#8217;s human nature!<\/p>\n<p>Of course, we suppress that &#8216;show side&#8217; and try not to show it so our friends will think we&#8217;re enlightened. But it&#8217;s part of the nature of the ego to complain.<\/p>\n<p>Who\u2019s to blame here?<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s all an interconnected web, and MY choice, as a place to stand, is \u00a0to take full responsibility for the life I\u2019m creating, and\u00a0<strong>advocate for the world I want to see<\/strong>\u00a0\u2014 with my time, money and attention\u2026<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why the Occupy movement\u00a0is so inspiring \u2014 even if it\u2019s rough around the edges in places &#8211;\u00a0there\u2019s a spirit running through it that is about proactively\u00a0creating the world we want to see!<\/p>\n<p>I hope the video Bryan and I made has you taking a closer look\u00a0at owning up at where you do the things we talk about, just to shine some light on it. And &#8211; where you want to be proactive in creating the life or world you want to see. Perhaps you&#8217;d start by posting it below.<\/p>\n<p>We welcome your comments, flames, more hate mail, etc.\u00a0<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.authenticworld.org\/wp-includes\/images\/smilies\/icon_smile.gif\" alt=\":-)\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>NOTE:\u00a0<\/strong>After watching the video,<strong> c<\/strong>onsider share this IMPORTANT message (and stirring up your friends) by <strong>clicking the like button<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Facebook Image:<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-465\" title=\"itsnotyouitsthem\" src=\"http:\/\/life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/10\/itsnotyouitsthem-300x205.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"205\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>Update #2 &#8211; A viewer&#8217;s video response!<\/h2>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/player.vimeo.com\/video\/33044252?title=0&amp;byline=0&amp;portrait=0\" width=\"480\" height=\"360\" frameborder=\"0\" webkitAllowFullScreen mozallowfullscreen allowFullScreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We&#8217;ve been taking responsibility for too long, rise up and blame!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[101],"tags":[104,105],"aioseo_notices":[],"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1058"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1058"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1058\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1058"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1058"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.life-coaching-resource.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1058"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}