David:  How would you feel about delaying leaving about 10 minutes so you could call your dad?

Client: I don’t know. I am planning on speaking to him tonight. Do you want me to get into this on the phone or do you just need to connect with him?

David: Well I don’t want you to get into this, because this is not about my life. In my experience, the longer this waits – like it’s already there for you to communicate to him and you just tapped into something today. It’s already there for you and you just found a way to communicate. So, for you to wait is to take you out of that space, and it’s going to weigh on you until you communicate it.

Client: Oh.

David: So, I’ve found that the only time really to communicate something like this is as soon as you can get yourself to a phone and say what you need to say. So then you can spend the rest of the evening just free and feeling like you said what you needed to say.