a Life You Love' Newsletter
Have You Heard the Truth About Women?
What are people saying about this ground breaking relationship ebook? Let's hear from some very happy men and women:
"David, I bought your book because I could not figure out what was missing in my relationship.
I found 'The Truth about Women' on the internet, and read it TWICE that very night. The penny dropped with me, and it was as though my heart sank and lifted at the same time. Sank, because I suddenly realised how selfish I had been. Lifted, because I realised that the man described in the book was actually the man I wanted to be but had somehow lost his way. I see now what an incredibly patient woman my wife has been!
I'm now practicing the tips and tools, and my wife is actually complimenting me which just makes me more motivated to do more! Yesterday she said the 'old me' seems to be coming back and she loves it. This book should be required reading for relationships not yet at their full potential.
David, a sincere thank you."
-->Chris G, United Kingdom
"David, I have to say thank you sooooo MUCH!!! My
husband and I seemed to be worlds apart until I found your ebook. We
starting reading 'The Truth About Women' together about a week ago and
it was as if the light came on. He actually looked at me and said 'I GET
IT! I understand now what you've been trying to tell me all along'.
I know this all sounds so stereotypical but it
is the truth. Thank you so much!"
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'Create' Newsletter Moves to Every 6 Weeks
In case you're wondering why it's been a while between issues,
I've decided to issue 'Create' roughly every 6-8 weeks, and start cranking
'Mentor Monthly' (for professionals) out every two weeks. So for you die-hard
'Create a Life You Love' fans, I'll keep them coming - just a little less
Are holiday bills surprising you? Are you hoping that if you ignore your finances long enough, maybe they will fix themselves?
Let's liken our finances to a garden. If we neglect the garden, weeds will grow and take over. The garden gets so bad we don't even want to look at it! But, with a little maintenance and tending the garden becomes a joy.
The first step towards creating a joyful financial garden is learning to save.
Why bother saving?
You need to know why you want to save mo'ney. Do you want to own your home, reach financial independence, get a vacation home on an island? Or do you simply want financial peace so you're not worrying about money?
Once you get that vision of what you want to achieve you will have the motivation to examine your finances.
When do you want to achieve your financial dream? 5 years, 10 years, 20 years? Now you know not only how much you need by when. This tells you how much you'll need to save each year to reach your goal in your required timeframe.
Look at your finances
You know what you want, when you want it and how much you want to save. Now you get to see if you can save that much. Look at your in'come and expenses. Do you have more coming in, then going out? If you do, you have a great start. If not, we'll look at how to create savings in a minute.
Instead, put money in savings first. Many companies allow you to automatically deduct money to put into a savings account. You won't miss it, because you'll never see it.
Now you get to play the "How Can I Live on the Rest" game.
Challenge yourself and be innovative. Are we having fun yet?
I can't save that much!
Prune those expenses
First, get rid of cre'dit card de'bt. If you can't use your card responsibly cut it up or put it in a block of ice in the freezer.
Next, list everything you spend money on. For each item ask if this is something that you can cut with no pain. Or will it cause a little pain. Or will it feel like taking off a limb?
Beside each item, list how much you would save each month by eliminating or slashing that cost by 50%. That number is what you could save for your dream. Imagine what you could do with that cash!
Some suggestions for cutting expenses
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OK - there's a blueprint to start taking financial responsibility, and to begin to enjoy your financial garden, instead of dreading being attacked in it! And coaches - feel free to use these ideas with your clients.
P.S. This article is derived from my original ABC interview on 'Controlling
Your Finances'. The recording is just one of the great bonuses that come
with your CoachingClips.com
SuperPass - available here.
With some wonderful feedback on 'The Truth About Women' ebook I'm motivated to do some free teleclasses - one for men, and one for women. Fun! And I'm begging my friend Millie Grosse to help me write the equivalent book for women - she's a rare expert (although she'll deny it) and this would be such gift to the world. Hmmmm... "Understanding the Well-meaning Yet Clueless Male"?
For me this month has been less 'hermit', and more 'getting out there'. I did a couple of 45 minute live coaching sessions on national radio this month (ABC), and plan to do a lot more. A good stand-up gig and meeting some cool comedians prompted me to get on the phone and book 3-5 more gigs - woo hoo! Also getting back into squash after a 5 year break, and loving being on the court!
And it's fun planning a trip to Sydney (April 1), Falls Creek for skiing (July 4), and we're flirting with an OS trip including New York and a house exchange in December/Jan.
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David Wood is a personal and business coach, and a founder of the International Coach Academy - a global company training coaches in nine countries. He is a Professional Certified Coach with the International Coach Federation (ICF) based in Washington, D.C.
David has coached people in 13 countries via telephone and email. He helps people tap into their passion and adventure, and get into action! He works with professionals on career direction and personal issues, with small business owners, and managers/executives. He also helps coaches start or accelerate their coaching practice via the CoachStart™ Program at http://www.CoachStart.com/Mentor.htm