a Life You Love' Newsletter
Three Prime Domains to Give Away
I'd like to give away:
www.professionalspeaker.com.au , and
to a coach who is seriously ready to build and promote their web site. There's no f'ee; all I ask is that you maintain a link to one of my sites. If you're ready to build your site now (not some day), then email me at email@example.com and let me know which site you want, what your business plans are, and why you should get the site!
Last month, I detailed the first simple but powerful method for finding a partner: Finding out who you want, where they hang out, and then hanging out there! (Back issue here).
In the second part of this two-part series you will find an even more powerful strategy: Become More Attractive. Do not overlook this strategy.
STRATEGY 2: Become More Attractive
The smart way to find a partner, is to become so attractive that people want to hang out with you.
To improve your own life, so that you're enjoying your own company more, and potential partners want to come and play!
Why are you looking?
Working on yourself first is smarter. Here are some ways to create a better life for yourself. What's the worst that can happen -- that you love your life more?(grin).
Enjoying your life...
If you are out there enjoying your life, reading your poetry at coffee houses, playing guitar with friends, writing your novel at the café, you are more attractive to other people. Other people will see your joy and want to have fun with you.
As a bonus, if you are having a ball in your life, you won't care as much if you don't get into a relationship right away. Ironically that's when you will find people wanting to join you!
Be the person you want to attract...
If you want a non-smoker, stop smoking.
If you want a tidy person who cares about their personal appearance, become tidy, and upgrade your wardrobe and grooming.
If you want someone fit and healthy, eat well and exercise regularly.
If you want someone with passion and integrity, spend your time expressing YOUR passion, and tell the truth even when it costs you something.
This is a great way to polish your life, and become more attractive to your ideal partner.
Take care of yourself
Notice when you start to feel irritated or tired. You might need to take a breather, a nap or a walk. Have fun discovering the best ways for you to work and dig deep to uncover the self-care actions that make you feel great.
Pampering yourself is a great way to feel happier about life - which makes dating you so much more fun!
For specific help and support in polishing your life and becoming much more attractive, listen online to my live coaching in the CoachingClips.com Personal Growth Library. It's currently selling for only $39. (List of clips here.)
It's been an exciting month with the launch of '10 Super Coaches Share Their Secrets' to my R&D team. Boy was that more work than I thought! But well worth it.
Now that the brand is starting to roll out (draft and products list here) I'm looking forward to creating a free service for coaches and the public (Discover Your Goals online form) -- and, don't you think a coach training video would be awesome? With four of the best coaches doing on-camera real life coaching.
And have you ever seen a kangaroo in a dentist's chair? Take a look at one of Bronnie's cuter patients!
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David Wood is a personal and business coach, and a founder of the International Coach Academy - a global company training coaches in nine countries. He is a Professional Certified Coach with the International Coach Federation (ICF) based in Washington, D.C.
David has coached people in 13 countries via telephone and email. He helps people tap into their passion and adventure, and get into action! He works with professionals on career direction and personal issues, with small business owners, and managers/executives. He also helps coaches start or accelerate their coaching practice via the CoachStart™ Program at http://www.CoachStart.com/Mentor.htm