a Life You Love' Newsletter
Can you imagine being a fly on the wallÖ
For some of my very best coaching sessions from the last 3 years? Listening to a client have a powerful breakthrough? Or hear me mentor a coach on building a successful web site?
Even better - Iíve whittled them down to the power sections ñ some clips are only 1-5 minutes! Check it out here:
How was this marriage saved?
I was very
moved to receive this success story from the latest reader of ëThe Truth
About Womení ebook:
We starting reading 'The Truth About Women' together about a week ago and it was as if the light came on. He actually looked at me and said "I GET IT!î I understand now what you've been trying to tell me all along"
We have our good days and our bad days, but the bad ones are becoming far less and when we need to we just reference your ebook to seek coaching!
I know this all sounds so stereotypical but it is the truth. Thank you so much. You have truly saved a family from it's own demise!"
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easy to have integrity when weíre not risking something? For example,
you can be honest with a customer when you donít need the sale, right?
the point letís pick a BIG example that most people can relate to:
Many of you will know this can be a VERY uncomfortable position! Your manager, blissfully unaware that youíre going to leave, wants to give you more responsibility. She wants to introduce you to that new account. You KNOW they should instead be phasing you out, and using you to train your replacement. But you keep your mouth shut because if they know youíre planning to leave, they might just fire you on the spot ñ right? Before youíre readyÖ.
This, my friend, is a perfect integrity challenge.
Naturally, the idea of being straight with her boss and risking losing her job 3 months too soon didnít appeal to Angela: ìI donít want to get canned before I am ready to quit!î she said.
(Note: In the online recording of this session, I also share with Angela my story of transitioning out of my last job ñ where I knew I was leaving, but not for six months! Do you think I faked it for 6 months, or came clean? And did I get fired? See below for the link.)
(Coachís Note: Even if she lost her job right away, would it really be a bad thing? Sometimes when you lose something in your life, it is something that no longer needs to be there. The space created when you lose it can allow what is next to flow into your life.)
She started to feel lighter as she pictured her life free from a job she didnít want to do. And more importantly, free from deceiving people and holding up a fake front. She committed there and then to telling her boss, and enthusing him in the idea of keeping her on for 3 months. We could feel her ëIntegrity Scoreí zooming up!
Full Recording Available Online:
If you would like to hear the full version of this session online, including HOW Angela approached her boss and the RESULT, you can order it here. (Tip: Itís the first clip in General Growth I). Or, to see which clips are included in this library, click here.
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So howís your integrity score? Is there something you are not in integrity about? Do you have someone with whom you are not being honest because youíre trying to hold on to something that might not be right for you anyway? Is your energy being drained by not telling the complete truth?
Risk a little
(smile). If you do, please let me know what you risked and how it felt
Iím still enjoying stand up comedy, and will be one of the opening acts for a big Aussie comedian this month! (Ostentayshus). Itís so much fun writing this stuff.
My ebook ëHow to Pleasure a Womaní was briefly feature in FHM magazine in the UK, and Irish Radio interviewed me which was fun. (Click to listen)
Lots of work finalizing the logo (still), the web templates for all 8 of my sites, and getting the affiliate program ready - lots of programming, but Iím a real nerd at that stuff and actually enjoy it. Speaking of which - Iím back into my obsession with the game Warcraft II ñ I know itís sad, but I absolutely love it! If anyone else will admit it, send me an email (grin).
Bronnie and I are still learning and becoming aware of our individual patterns in relationship. I'm learning (slowly) how much I still take anger personally. And, I'm fortunate to be with a gorgeous wonderful woman so willing to change and grow. And hey, we're having fun too! We took our first surfing lesson ever - here are the pics.
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David Wood is a personal and business coach, and a founder of the International Coach Academy - a global company training coaches in nine countries. He is a Professional Certified Coach with the International Coach Federation (ICF) based in Washington, D.C.
David has coached people in 13 countries via telephone and email. He helps people tap into their passion and adventure, and get into action! He works with professionals on career direction and personal issues, with small business owners, and managers/executives. He also helps coaches start or accelerate their coaching practice via the CoachStart™ Program at http://www.CoachStart.com/Mentor.htm